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Spanking is love, and scolding is affection. Spanking is love, and scolding is affection.

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parents | children | education

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We find that even the parents who justify spanking to themselves are defensive and embarrassed about it....I suspect that deep in ... - MORE We find that even the parents who justify spanking to themselves are defensive and embarrassed about it....I suspect that deep in the memory of every parent are the feelings that had attended his own childhood spankings, the feelings of humiliation, of helplessness, of submission through fear. The parent who finds himself spanking his own child cannot dispel the ghosts of his own childhood.

Selma H. Fraiberg

parenting styles | children

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Whenever reality reinforces a child's fantasied dangers, the child will have more difficulty in overcoming them...So, while parent... - MORE Whenever reality reinforces a child's fantasied dangers, the child will have more difficulty in overcoming them...So, while parents may not regard a spanking as a physical attack or an assault on a child's body, the child may regard it as such, and experience it as a confirmation of his fears that grown-ups under certain circumstances can really hurt you.

Selma H. Fraiberg

children's fears

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Routine physical punishment such as spanking teaches a toddler that might makes right and that it is fine to hit when one is stron... - MORE Routine physical punishment such as spanking teaches a toddler that might makes right and that it is fine to hit when one is stronger and can get away with it.

Alicia F. Lieberman

discipline and punishment compared

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How can you tell if you discipline effectively? Ask yourself if your disciplinary methods generally produce lasting results in a m... - MORE How can you tell if you discipline effectively? Ask yourself if your disciplinary methods generally produce lasting results in a manner you find acceptable. Whether your philosophy is democratic or autocratic, whatever techniques you use—reasoning, a "star" chart, time-outs, or spanking—if it doesn't work, it's not effective.

Stanley Turecki

discipline and setting limits

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