... when you do get a job everybody says, "Well, they wanted a black woman," which necessarily puts you on a level where you have ...to prove yourself above being a woman and being black.... Now, I would say, in certain situations, it helped me simply because I was mildly attractive, not because I was black or a woman. That gets you more mileage than anything else.... God help you if you're not an attractive woman.LESSATTRIBUTION DETAIL »
I've tried to open the door. My knock isn't that big a sound. But it is like the knock in "The Wizard of Oz." It set up this echo ...through the halls until it was heard by everyone.LESSATTRIBUTION DETAIL »
It was so hard to pry this door open, and if I mess up I know the people behind me are going to have it that much harder. Because ...then there's living proof. They can sit around and say, "See? It doesn't work." I don't want to be their living proof.LESSATTRIBUTION DETAIL »
Let's assume you guys know I got this job because of my competency and proven successes with this company and you're just as happy... to have me here as I am to be here, and I won't ever think anything other than that.LESSATTRIBUTION DETAIL »
The token woman carries a bouquet of hothouse celery and a stenographer's pad; she will take... the minutes, perk the coffee, smile like a plastic daisy and put out the black cat of her sensuous anger to howl on the fence all night.LESSATTRIBUTION DETAIL »
To become a token woman--whether you win the Nobel Prize or merely get tenure at the cost of denying your sisters--is to become so...mething less than a man ... since men are loyal at least to their own world-view, their laws of brotherhood and self-interest.LESSATTRIBUTION DETAIL »
Perhaps the fact that I am not a Radical or a believer in the all powerful ballot for women to right her wrongs and that I do not ...scorn womanly duties, but claim it as a privilege to clean up and sort of supervise the room and sew things, etc., is winning me stronger allies than anything else.LESSATTRIBUTION DETAIL »